Family assessments can be a time of uncertainty and change for everyone involved, including siblings. At Vumisa Homes, we understand the importance of supporting siblings throughout this process. Here are some tips to help parents navigate this journey and ensure siblings feel secure and connected:

Open Communication is Key:

• Age-appropriate explanations: Explain the assessment process to each child in a way they can understand. Tailor your language to their age and maturity level.
• Honest and Reassuring: Be honest about the reason for the assessment, but emphasize that it’s not their fault and it’s an opportunity to get help for the family.
• Answer their questions: Encourage open communication and answer their questions honestly and patiently. Let them know it’s okay to feel worried or confused.

Maintaining a Sense of Normalcy:

• Routine and Stability: As much as possible, try to maintain regular routines and schedules during the assessment process. This provides a sense of stability and comfort for siblings.
• Together Time: Set aside dedicated time for each child individually and for all siblings to spend time together. This helps maintain a sense of connection and normalcy.
• Fun Activities: Schedule time for fun activities and play to help siblings relax and de-stress.

Addressing Fears and Emotions:

• Validate their feelings: It’s normal for siblings to feel a range of emotions, such as worry, anger, or sadness. Acknowledge their feelings and validate their experiences.
• Listen without judgement: Create a safe space for siblings to express their concerns and listen actively without judgment.
• Positive Reinforcement: Focus on the positive aspects of the assessment, such as getting help for the family and making things better.

Helping Siblings Feel Included:

• Explain their role: Let siblings know that their voice matters and that they can participate in the assessment process if they feel comfortable.
• Maintaining Privacy: Respect their privacy regarding what they share with the social worker during the assessment.
• Reassure them of your love: Reassure your children that you love them unconditionally and that you’re there for them no matter what.

Additional Resources:

• Consider involving siblings in age-appropriate activities related to the assessment process, such as drawing pictures or writing about their feelings.
• If siblings are struggling to cope, consider seeking professional support from a therapist or counselor.

Remember, you’re not alone!

Vumisa Homes’ experienced social workers understand the importance of supporting siblings during a family assessment. We work collaboratively with families to ensure all members feel safe, heard, and supported throughout the process.

If your family has been referred to Vumisa Homes for a family assessment, please don’t hesitate to contact us. We’re here to answer your questions and guide you through each step.

Together, we can create a positive and supportive environment for all members of your family.